8 ways to say you're angry in Korean, from 짜증 나 to 됐어
Korean separates irritation from anger more cleanly than English does. 짜증 is the small, everyday kind; 화 is the real thing; and there are separate words for being offended, for disbelief, and for the point where you stop talking.
The phrases below climb that ladder in polite 요 speech, which is still how most people voice anger to anyone who is not a close friend. The casual forms are noted where they matter.
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짜증 나요.
jjajeung nayo.
This is so annoying.
Literally: Irritation comes out.
Low-grade irritation: the bus is late, the app crashed. It is the most used anger word in Korean by far. Officially spelled with a space, 짜증 나다, though you will see 짜증나 everywhere.
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화나요.
hwanayo.
I'm angry.
Literally: Fire comes out.
Actual anger, a level above 짜증. 화났어요 (I got angry) is what people say about a situation; 화내지 마세요 (don't be angry at me) is the plea you hear in reply.
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열받아요.
yeolbadayo.
I'm fuming.
Literally: I'm receiving heat.
Colloquial and physical, the hot-face kind of angry. Fine with friends and in 요 form with people your own age; too raw for work.
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기분 나빠요.
gibun nappayo.
That upset me.
Literally: My feeling is bad.
The word for offended or hurt rather than furious. Saying it tells someone their comment landed badly, which in Korean is a serious thing to say out loud.
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어이가 없네요.
eoiga eomneyo.
I honestly can't believe this.
Literally: There is no 어이.
Exasperated disbelief at something absurd or unfair. 네요 adds a note of just-realising-it. Also common as plain 어이없다.
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말도 안 돼요.
maldo an dwaeyo.
That's ridiculous.
Literally: Even words don't work.
Outrage or shock, depending on tone. Said flatly about a price or a decision it means 'unacceptable'; said with wide eyes it means 'no way'.
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미치겠어요.
michigesseoyo.
This is driving me crazy.
Literally: I'm about to go mad.
Frustration that has been building, usually at a situation rather than a person. 미치겠다 muttered to yourself is the everyday version.
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됐어요.
dwaesseoyo.
Forget it.
Literally: It's done.
The shutdown. In an argument it means the conversation is over and you have lost, which is exactly why it stings. 됐어, the casual form, is what you hear between couples in dramas.
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A register note: Koreans voice 짜증 freely and 화 rarely, so saying 화나요 to someone's face is already a strong move. Most of the time 짜증 나요 or 기분 나빠요 says what you mean without burning anything.